{"id":1979,"date":"2014-08-22T10:57:42","date_gmt":"2014-08-22T10:57:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/self-help-4-stroke-plugin-upgrade.local\/?p=1979"},"modified":"2015-05-28T14:19:11","modified_gmt":"2015-05-28T14:19:11","slug":"what-would-you-like-to-be-doing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.selfhelp4stroke.org\/?p=1979","title":{"rendered":"What would you like to be doing?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>So now you have your list. If it is quite lengthy you might want to prioritise a few things.<\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s hear about how Betty went about this&#8230;<\/p>\n<div class=\"slidercontainer\" id=\"sliderstage\">\n<div class=\"titlebar\">\n<div class=\"titletxt\">Let\u2019s hear about how Betty went about this\u2026 Select the arrow keys to hear Betty&#8217;s story.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"slides\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/Betty_01.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/Betty_02.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/Betty_03.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/Betty_04.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/Betty_05.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/Betty_06.jpg\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"bottombar group2\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"wp-spoiler-1\" class=\"wp-spoiler wpui-hashable wpui-narrow wpui-styles\" data-style=\"wpui-narrow\">  <h3 class=\"wp-spoiler-title wpui-hashable fade-true slide-true open-false\">View text alternative<\/h3><div class=\"wpui-hidden wp-spoiler-content\"><br \/>\n<strong>Scene 1<\/strong>: There&#8217;s just so much going on. My family are really good and supportive. Always checking in on me and getting me involved in things.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Scene 2:<\/strong> My daughter&#8217;s dead keen on us going away for a wee break to Spain for a bit of sunshine. (postcard from Spain)<\/p>\n<p><strong>Scene 3<\/strong>: My son\u00a0has been on the phone\u00a0wanting me to go down to see him and the grandkids. (Train journey)<\/p>\n<p><strong>Scene 4<\/strong>: I have also got my goddaughter&#8217;s wedding coming up. It&#8217;s all happening right now and I feel&#8230;well&#8230;overwhelmed. (Wedding invitation)<\/p>\n<p><strong>Scene 5<\/strong>: Do you know I even found myself ignoring the phone last night because I knew it would be one of them trying to talk me into things. Och.. they\u00a0mean well.\u00a0 I felt so\u00a0bad about ignoring the phone,\u00a0I\u00a0knew\u00a0it was time to sit down and work out what was important to me and what I think I can manage\u00a0just now. (phone ringing)<\/p>\n<p><strong>Scene 6<\/strong>: What I really want more than anything at the moment\u00a0is just to meet up with my friends\u00a0at the lunch club for\u00a0a blether. (Betty&#8217;s priority list)<\/p>\n<div class='notepad'>\n<div class=\"notepadringstop\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"notepadrings\"><\/div>\n<div class='notepadtext'>\n<h3>Betty&#8217;s Priority List<\/h3>\n<hr>\n<ul>\n<li>Spain &#8211; <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/wp-content\/themes\/SH4S_LTS\/css\/bg_images\/cross.png\" alt=\"Cross\"><\/li>\n<li>Train Journey &#8211; Not right now<\/li>\n<li>Wedding &#8211; Wait and see<\/li>\n<li>Lunch club &#8211; <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/wp-content\/themes\/SH4S_LTS\/css\/bg_images\/tick.png\" alt=\"Tick\"><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><\/div>  <\/div><!-- end div.wp-spoiler -->\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"100%\" height=\"166\" scrolling=\"no\" frameborder=\"no\" src=\"https:\/\/w.soundcloud.com\/player\/?url=https%3A\/\/api.soundcloud.com\/tracks\/205576151%3Fsecret_token%3Ds-KiclF&amp;color=990066&amp;auto_play=false&amp;hide_related=false&amp;show_comments=true&amp;show_user=true&amp;show_reposts=false\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<div id=\"wp-spoiler-2\" class=\"wp-spoiler wpui-hashable wpui-narrow wpui-styles\" data-style=\"wpui-narrow\">  <h3 class=\"wp-spoiler-title wpui-hashable fade-true slide-true open-false\">View audio text alternative<\/h3><div class=\"wpui-hidden wp-spoiler-content\">&#8220;There\u2019s just so much going on. My family are really good and supportive. Always checking in on me and getting me involved in things.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;My daughter\u2019s dead keen on us going away for a wee break to Spain for a bit of sunshine.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;My son has been on the phone wanting me to go down to see him and the grandkids.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I have also got my goddaughter\u2019s wedding coming up. It\u2019s all happening right now and I feel\u2026well\u2026overwhelmed.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Do you know I even found myself ignoring the phone last night because I knew it would be one of them trying to talk me into things. Och.. they mean well.  I felt so bad about ignoring the phone, I knew it was time to sit down and work out what was important to me and what I think I can manage just now.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;What I really want more than anything at the moment is just to meet up with my friends at the lunch club for a blether.&#8221;<\/div>  <\/div><!-- end div.wp-spoiler -->\n<div class=\"activity\">\n<h3>Something to try<\/h3>\n<p>As you can see it took a bit of soul searching for Betty to come to her decision. She has prioritised what\u00a0matters to her and what she feels she can manage. Why don&#8217;t you try the same thing?<\/p><\/div>\n<p><a href=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/SH4S_Goal_Setting_PDF.pdf\" class=\"downloadlink\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Opens new window\">Download the goal setting plan [.pdf, 51 KB] <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So now you have your list. If it is quite lengthy you might want to prioritise a few things. Let&#8217;s hear about how Betty went about this&#8230; Let\u2019s hear about how Betty went about this\u2026 Select the arrow keys to hear Betty&#8217;s story. 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