{"id":3835,"date":"2014-11-27T16:58:35","date_gmt":"2014-11-27T16:58:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/self-help-4-stroke-plugin-upgrade.local\/?p=3835"},"modified":"2015-05-29T12:46:35","modified_gmt":"2015-05-29T12:46:35","slug":"relationships-with-the-people-in-my-world","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.selfhelp4stroke.org\/?p=3835","title":{"rendered":"Relationships with the people in my world"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mc_box\">\n<div class=\"question\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/people_in_world_IMG.png\" alt=\"\"\/>Q. Lets now look at your relationships with the people in your world. Fill out a name below, select 6 words that best describe them and then select &#8216;Finish&#8217;.<\/div>\n<div class=\"quiz_box\">\n<div class=\"namearrow\"><label for=\"name\" class=\"labeltxtlrg\">1. Enter the name of a person in your world:<\/label><input type=\"text\" name=\"fname\" id=\"name\" class=\"convname\" maxlength=\"20\"\/><\/p>\n<div id=\"addbtn\" class=\"button orange\">Add<\/div>\n<div id=\"errortxttop\"><\/div>\n<p>2. Select 6 words that best describe this person, your relationship with them and how they make you feel.\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"addednames\">\n<div id=\"nameslist\">\n<div id=\"feedbacktxt\"><\/div>\n<ul id=\"yourwords\" class=\"wordslist\">\n<li>Close<\/li>\n<li>Sad<\/li>\n<li>Critical<\/li>\n<li>Supportive<\/li>\n<li>Distant<\/li>\n<li>Overbearing<\/li>\n<li>Encouraging<\/li>\n<li>Helpful<\/li>\n<li>Solid<\/li>\n<li>Listens<\/li>\n<li>Difficult<\/li>\n<li>Get me down<\/li>\n<li>Get on my nerves<\/li>\n<li>Helps me<\/li>\n<li>Hard work<\/li>\n<li>Happy<\/li>\n<li>Trust<\/li>\n<li>Gives me a hard time<\/li>\n<li>Frustrating<\/li>\n<li>Understanding<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"errortxt\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"buttons\">\n<div class=\"button orange\" id=\"resetbtn\">Start again<\/div>\n<div class=\"button orange\" id=\"finishbtn\">Finish<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><script type=\"text\/javascript\" src=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/relationships_words_3835_SEL.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<div id=\"wp-spoiler-1\" class=\"wp-spoiler wpui-hashable wpui-narrow wpui-styles\" data-style=\"wpui-narrow\">  <h3 class=\"wp-spoiler-title wpui-hashable fade-true slide-true open-false\">View text alternative<\/h3><div class=\"wpui-hidden wp-spoiler-content\"><br \/>\nThink of a person in your world. Choose the words that best describe this person, your relationship with them and how they make you feel. <\/p>\n<table>\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<th>Positive words<\/th>\n<th>Negative words<\/th>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td>CLOSE<br \/>\nSUPPORTIVE<br \/>\nHELPS ME<br \/>\nHAPPY<br \/>\nHELPFUL<br \/>\nSOLID<br \/>\nENCOURAGING<br \/>\nUNDERSTANDING<br \/>\nTRUST<br \/>\nLISTENS<\/td>\n<td>SAD<br \/>\nGET ME DOWN<br \/>\nCRITICAL<br \/>\nDISTANT<br \/>\nHARD WORK<br \/>\nOVERBEARING<br \/>\nGET ON MY NERVES<br \/>\nDIFFICULT<br \/>\nGIVES ME A HARD TIME<br \/>\nFRUSTRATING<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<p><strong>Feedback: if you chose mostly positive words <\/strong><br \/>\nIt looks as though you have good relationships with this person. That\u2019s great it\u2019s important to have supportive people around us.<br \/>\nHas your relationship with these people always been so good? Understandably, we often concentrate on the negative impact of stroke but in some circumstances it can strengthen relationships and bring people closer together.<br \/>\n<strong>Feedback 2: if you chose some positive and negative words<\/strong><br \/>\nIt looks as though your relationship with this person has some good and bad points. Think about the words you used to describe these relationships; could these relationships be improved?<br \/>\nHas your stroke had an impact on this relationship? Before your stroke would you have picked different words to describe this relationship, how have things changed?<br \/>\n<strong>Feedback 3 : if you chose mostly negative words<\/strong><br \/>\nYour relationship with this person doesn\u2019t look too great; is this surprising to you?<br \/>\nIs this since your stroke or was it a difficult relationship before? Do they know how you feel &#8211; have you tried talking to them? Communication is really important in all relationships. See the section on Talking and Sharing for some tips and advice.<\/p>\n<p> <\/div>  <\/div><!-- end div.wp-spoiler -->\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Q. Lets now look at your relationships with the people in your world. Fill out a name below, select 6 words that best describe them and then select &#8216;Finish&#8217;. 1. Enter the name of a person in your world: Add 2. 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