{"id":6766,"date":"2015-05-15T09:04:56","date_gmt":"2015-05-15T09:04:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/self-help-4-stroke-plugin-upgrade.local\/?p=6766"},"modified":"2015-06-10T11:45:29","modified_gmt":"2015-06-10T11:45:29","slug":"kelly-and-jean-in-the-cafe-jumping-in-too-soon","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.selfhelp4stroke.org\/?p=6766","title":{"rendered":"Kelly and Jean in the Cafe &#8211; jumping in too soon"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Friends and family want to help as much as they can. This is only natural. However jumping in too soon can be frustrating, especially if you want to give things a try yourself. <\/p>\n<div class=\"embed-responsive embed-responsive-16by9\"><iframe src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/qj5ixSbWnrA?rel=0&amp;showinfo=0\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/div>\n<div id=\"wp-spoiler-1\" class=\"wp-spoiler wpui-hashable wpui-narrow wpui-styles\" data-style=\"wpui-narrow\">  <h3 class=\"wp-spoiler-title wpui-hashable fade-true slide-true open-false\">View text alternative<\/h3><div class=\"wpui-hidden wp-spoiler-content\"><\/p>\n<p>Jean: There you go (places tray of drinks on the table)<\/p>\n<p>Kelly: You know, it\u2019s just so lovely getting out, it\u2019s such a lovely day, I\u2019ve just been looking forward to this for so long, I feel like I\u2019ve been stuck in the house<\/p>\n<p>Jean: I know you asked for coffee, but I\u2019ve brought you tea, I thought that might be better for you<\/p>\n<p>Kelly: Oh right, ok..<\/p>\n<p>Jean moves all the cups of the tray, but doesn\u2019t let Kelly help<\/p>\n<p>Jean: I\u2019ve brought some cakes though<\/p>\n<p>Kelly: right, uh-huh, they look lovely<\/p>\n<p>Jean moves Kelly\u2019s cup away from her, then starts adding sweetner to Kelly\u2019s tea.<\/p>\n<p>Kelly: Oh no, I take sugar in my tea<\/p>\n<p>Jean: Oh no, sweetner\u2019s better for you, much better for you \u2026.. (stirs cup)\u2026.there you go (hands over tea)<\/p>\n<p>Jean: Would you like a cake, here let me ..<\/p>\n<p>Kelly: Look, Jean, I can do things for myself, if I don\u2019t start doing things for myself I\u2019ll never learn.<\/p>\n<p>Jean: I\u2019m only trying to help<\/p>\n<p>Kelly: Och, I know you are<\/p>\n<p>Jean: There you go\u2026. (hands over cake)<\/p>\n<p><\/div>  <\/div><!-- end div.wp-spoiler -->\n<p>As you can see this did not work out well. Kelly was frustrated at Jean taking over.  <\/p>\n<div class=\"reflect\">\n<h3>Something to think about<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>Has this happened to you?<\/li>\n<li>\nWhat were you trying to do at the time?<\/li>\n<li>\nWho was with you?<\/li>\n<li>How did you feel?<\/li>\n<li>What could have made it better?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<p>Now let&#8217;s go on to see what would happen if the situation was different&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Friends and family want to help as much as they can. This is only natural. However jumping in too soon can be frustrating, especially if you want to give things a try yourself. As you can see this did not work out well. Kelly was frustrated at Jean taking over. Something to think about Has [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":50,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[147],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6766","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-people-in-my-world-30914"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.selfhelp4stroke.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6766","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.selfhelp4stroke.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.selfhelp4stroke.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.selfhelp4stroke.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/50"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.selfhelp4stroke.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6766"}],"version-history":[{"count":15,"href":"https:\/\/www.selfhelp4stroke.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6766\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8006,"href":"https:\/\/www.selfhelp4stroke.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6766\/revisions\/8006"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.selfhelp4stroke.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6766"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.selfhelp4stroke.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6766"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.selfhelp4stroke.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6766"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}