{"id":6768,"date":"2015-05-15T09:05:22","date_gmt":"2015-05-15T09:05:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/self-help-4-stroke-plugin-upgrade.local\/?p=6768"},"modified":"2015-06-10T11:46:20","modified_gmt":"2015-06-10T11:46:20","slug":"kelly-and-jean-in-the-cafe-not-asking-for-help","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.selfhelp4stroke.org\/?p=6768","title":{"rendered":"Kelly and Jean in the cafe &#8211; not getting help"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes the situation can be different. Friends and family might want to let you do things for yourself and not realise that you are having difficulty. This can be just as frustrating.<\/p>\n<div class=\"embed-responsive embed-responsive-16by9\"><iframe src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/yz4vQ0ef0ZQ?rel=0&amp;showinfo=0\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/div>\n<div id=\"wp-spoiler-1\" class=\"wp-spoiler wpui-hashable wpui-narrow wpui-styles\" data-style=\"wpui-narrow\">  <h3 class=\"wp-spoiler-title wpui-hashable fade-true slide-true open-false\">View text alternative<\/h3><div class=\"wpui-hidden wp-spoiler-content\"><br \/>\nKelly: Is it awful busy out there<\/p>\n<p>Jean: Oh it was busy. I forgot what you asked for, was it tea?<\/p>\n<p>Kelly: Um no, it was coffee actually, but\u2026och<\/p>\n<p>Jean: (putting out tea things). I\u2019ve got some nice cakes\u2026.. you can have whichever one you fancy\u2026.. I know which one I want<\/p>\n<p>Kelly: (struggles to open the sugar packet one handed)\u2026. could I get a wee bit of help here, I\u2019m just really struggling with these sachets<\/p>\n<p>Jean: Try it yourself, and see how you get on..<\/p>\n<p>Kelly: (shakes sachet of sugar over the table, missing cup)<\/p>\n<p>Jean: (Is oblivious to this as she is looking at her phone and drinking her coffee)<\/p>\n<p>Kelly: (then reaches for cake, but knocks over some things on the table and struggles to remove cake from wrapping)<\/p>\n<p>Jean: Oh, you\u2019re making a mess.<\/p>\n<p>Kelly: Well, if you give me some help I might not have made a mess.<\/p>\n<p>Jean: What was that? (Jean ignores her as she is texting on her phone)<\/div>  <\/div><!-- end div.wp-spoiler -->\n<p>As you can see this did not work out well either. Kelly was just as frustrated at Jean not helping. <\/p>\n<div class=\"reflect\">\n<h3>Something to think about<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>Has this happened to you?<\/li>\n<li> What were you trying to do at the time?<\/li>\n<li>Who was with you?<\/li>\n<li> How did you feel?<\/li>\n<li>What could have made it better?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<p>Now let\u2019s go on to see what would happen if the situation was different again.\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes the situation can be different. Friends and family might want to let you do things for yourself and not realise that you are having difficulty. This can be just as frustrating. As you can see this did not work out well either. Kelly was just as frustrated at Jean not helping. Something to think [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":50,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[147],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6768","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-people-in-my-world-30914"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.selfhelp4stroke.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6768","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.selfhelp4stroke.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.selfhelp4stroke.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.selfhelp4stroke.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/50"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.selfhelp4stroke.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6768"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"https:\/\/www.selfhelp4stroke.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6768\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8007,"href":"https:\/\/www.selfhelp4stroke.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6768\/revisions\/8007"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.selfhelp4stroke.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6768"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.selfhelp4stroke.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6768"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.selfhelp4stroke.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6768"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}