{"id":6770,"date":"2015-05-15T09:05:43","date_gmt":"2015-05-15T09:05:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/self-help-4-stroke-plugin-upgrade.local\/?p=6770"},"modified":"2015-06-10T11:47:39","modified_gmt":"2015-06-10T11:47:39","slug":"kelly-and-jean-in-the-cafe-asking-for-help","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.selfhelp4stroke.org\/?p=6770","title":{"rendered":"Kelly and Jean in the cafe &#8211; asking for help"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Asking for help can be difficult, but if it done early on it is likely you will get the right balance.<\/p>\n<div class=\"embed-responsive embed-responsive-16by9\"><iframe src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/fB4WSv_E3Xo?rel=0&amp;showinfo=0\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/div>\n<div id=\"wp-spoiler-1\" class=\"wp-spoiler wpui-hashable wpui-narrow wpui-styles\" data-style=\"wpui-narrow\">  <h3 class=\"wp-spoiler-title wpui-hashable fade-true slide-true open-false\">View text alternative<\/h3><div class=\"wpui-hidden wp-spoiler-content\">Jean: The cakes all look amazing, I\u2019ve got what you asked for &#8211; a nice wee cup of tea<\/p>\n<p>Kelly: Oh, thank you (takes cup)<\/p>\n<p>Jean: Just let me know if you need any help<\/p>\n<p>Kelly: Oh thanks, I will do (reaches for sugar sachet)<\/p>\n<p>Kelly: (tries to open sugar sachet)\u2026.actually, do you mind if you give me a wee hand opening my sugar it\u2019s quite tricky doing it with one hand, I\u2019m not quite there with the other one yet<\/p>\n<p>Jean: Sure\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Jean: (Opens sugar sachet and adds it to Kelly\u2019s tea)<\/p>\n<p>Jean: There\u2026 you ok with the spoon<\/p>\n<p>Kelly:  yeah thanks<\/p>\n<p>Jean: Now, how about a wee cake<\/p>\n<p>Kelly: Need you ask&#8230;. <\/p>\n<p>Jean: (hands over plate of cakes)<\/p>\n<p>Kelly: oh they all look lovely don&#8217;t they, I think I&#8217;ll go for that one, cheers. I&#8217;ve been looking forward to this, do you know this is the first time I&#8217;ve been out since I came home from hospital<\/p>\n<p>Jean: Oh gosh<\/p>\n<p>Kelly: Seems like forever, but I&#8217;m glad to be out and about again<\/p>\n<p>Jean: It&#8217;s so nice to have you back<\/p>\n<p>Kelly: Thanks. So what&#8217;s all the gossip, I feel like I&#8217;ve missed out on so much<\/p>\n<p>Jean: Well, wait till I tell you this&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><\/div>  <\/div><!-- end div.wp-spoiler -->\n<p>Kelly and Jean have at last found the right balance. We can see that getting it right can make a positive difference. <\/p>\n<p>Lets go onto to see what we have learned from Kelly and Jeans experience.  <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Asking for help can be difficult, but if it done early on it is likely you will get the right balance. Kelly and Jean have at last found the right balance. We can see that getting it right can make a positive difference. Lets go onto to see what we have learned from Kelly and [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":50,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[147],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6770","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-people-in-my-world-30914"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.selfhelp4stroke.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6770","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.selfhelp4stroke.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.selfhelp4stroke.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.selfhelp4stroke.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/50"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.selfhelp4stroke.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6770"}],"version-history":[{"count":14,"href":"https:\/\/www.selfhelp4stroke.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6770\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8008,"href":"https:\/\/www.selfhelp4stroke.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6770\/revisions\/8008"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.selfhelp4stroke.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6770"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.selfhelp4stroke.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6770"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.selfhelp4stroke.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6770"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}